The first week home after a holiday
You are home and the sleep you had before you left has not come back with you. It usually takes about as long to recover as the trip took to unsettle it - provided you go straight back to normal rather than easing in.
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Two things are unwinding at once. The body clock, if you crossed time zones, is still moving at its own rate of about an hour a day. And the habits picked up on holiday - a later bedtime, a shared room, more settling help, naps in the pram - have become the current arrangement.
The clock will sort itself out. The habits will not, and they are the part worth acting on quickly.
What to do
Full normal routine from the first night home. Same bedtime, same sequence, same room, same settling. Easing back in over a week drags the protest out over that whole week.
Morning light, immediately. Out of the house in the morning, even briefly. Nothing resets a body clock faster.
Cap the naps. Long recovery naps feel kind and they hold the clock where it was. Wake them at the normal times.
Undo the holiday habits at once. Back in their own cot on night one, not after a transitional week. A clean return concentrates the difficulty into two or three nights.
Expect one bad night at least. And do not read it as evidence that the return has failed.
How long
Three to four nights for a trip without a time change. Up to a week after crossing several zones. Naps typically recover more slowly than nights, and the schedule is often the last thing to settle.
Bear in mind that your baby is also a fortnight older than when you left, and wake windows may genuinely need adjusting. If nothing recovers by the end of the second week, look at the timing rather than continuing to blame the holiday.
Go back to normal on the first night home. A gentle transition simply spreads the same protest across a week.
If you cannot face it
That is a common and reasonable position after two weeks of broken nights in a rented flat. Pick one thing - usually bedtime, in their own cot, at the usual time - and hold only that for four nights. The rest can wait, and it frequently improves on its own once bedtime is back.
What to do about the habits first
Deal with those before worrying about the clock, because the clock resolves itself and habits do not. If you shared a bed for a fortnight, go back to the cot on the first night home. If you rocked to sleep every night, go back to whatever you did before.
It will produce two or three difficult nights on top of the jet lag, which is exactly why people put it off - and putting it off is what turns a fortnight of holiday habits into a month of established ones. Doing both at once is unpleasant and short; doing them in sequence takes twice as long.
Adjusting for the age they are now
A fortnight away means your baby is a fortnight older, and the schedule you left with may genuinely no longer fit. Wake windows lengthen continuously, and a bedtime that was right before the holiday can be twenty minutes wrong on your return.
So if the first week home does not resolve things, check the numbers rather than assuming the holiday is still to blame. Three days of notes against the range for their current age will tell you whether you are recovering a schedule or rebuilding one, and those are different jobs.
When to stop troubleshooting
Sleep that has not recovered a fortnight after returning is its own problem rather than travel residue, particularly with snoring, a lingering cough, or a baby who seems unwell. Speak to your GP or health visitor.
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